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EUPHEMISMS: Death and DyingSome of our best work with euphemisms involves the subject that makes us the most uncomfortable: death.Our most common euphemism for death is to say the person passed away. Or passed on. If you believe in an afterlife, you may prefer crossed over, or crossed over to the other side. Whenever I hear that someone has crossed over to the other side, I always picture Fifth Avenue.Then there's the official term for dying, the doctor term. In this case the person simply expires. Like a magazine subscription. One month he just doesn't show up. Unfortunately, he can't renew. Or so they say. Better check with the Hindus on that.Now, continuing. In this current age of specializationand increasing detachment if the person in question dies in a hospital, it's called a terminal episode. Although the insurance company sees it as negative patient-care outcome. That one's actually kinda nice, isn't it? And if the negative patient-care outcome was caused by medical malpractice, then it's referred to it as a therapeutic misadventure. Colorful term. No wonder so many doctors are leaving their practices; it's hard to get therapeutic-misadventure insurance.But by far the most creative terms we've come up with to comfort ourselves about death are the ones that describe the rituals survivors put themselves through. We owe a lot of this softened language to the funeral business. Or, as they prefer to be known, the death-care industry. They have completely transformed the language used to describe what happens following a death.In years past it went like this: "The old man died, so the undertaker picked up the body, brought it to the funeral home and put it in a casket. People sent flowers and held a wake. After the funeral, they put the coffin in a hearse and drove it to the cemetery, where the dead man was buried in a grave."But in these days of heightened sensitivity, the same series of events produces what sounds like a completely different experience: "The senior citizen passed away, so the funeral director claimed the remains of the decedent, took them to the memorial chapel and placed them in a burial container. Grieving survivors sent floral tributes to be displayed in the slumber room, where the grief coordinator conducted the viewing. Following the memorial service, the funeral coach transported the departed to the garden of remembrance where his human remains were interred in their final resting place. "Huh? What's that? Did someone die or something?I'VE GOT A TRAIN TO CATCHThis item demonstrates how stupid the average American is. Every ninety minutes someone in this country is hit by a train. A train, okay? Trains are on tracks; they can't come and get you. They can't surprise you when you step off a curb. You have to go to them. Got that?There are five thousand highway/rail-crossing accidents annually. To counter this problem, the Department of Transportation issued the following rules for people to follow at railroad crossings:Don't drive around lowered gates. "Okay, got it."Don't cross in front of a train. "Never thought of that."Don't walk on the tracks. "Check."Be aware that trains can't stop quickly. "Good to know."Always expect a train. "This one would probably be tied in to the fact that these are railroad tracks, is that right? Correct me if I'm wrong on this."Look for more than one train. "Frankly, this is one I never thought of. Maybe if I remember the others, this one will take care of itself."GET DOWN!Here's something to think about: In the course of history's wars, many battles took place in the woods and the countryside. So, sometimes I picture a soldier waking up on a spring morning, wildflowers growing around his tent, birds singing in the trees, perhaps the comforting sound of a brook trickling by in the near distance. And then a ten-pound cannonbail hits him in the face. It's an interesting thought, don't you think?ON MY HONORI wanted to be a Boy Scout, but I had all the wrong traits. Apparently, they were looking for kids who were trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean and reverent. Unfortunately, at that time, I was devious, fickle, obstructive, hostile, rude, mean, defiant, glum, extravagant, cowardly, dirty and sacrilegious. So I waited a few years and joined the army.PASS THE MUSTARDIn New York State, the law says that the ingredients of hot dogs can legally include a certain amount or percentage of insect parts and rat droppings. It's permissible by law. So, in New York, when you eat a hot dog, you more or less have to hope that the hot dog you're eating contains only the most nutritious parts of the insects (not just legs and antennae) and that the rats whose feces you're eating were on good, heart-healthy diets.YOU'VE GOT A NICE VOICE, DO YOU HAVE INSURANCE?I've been enjoying a new band from England called So Long, Mate! It's a five-man heavy-metal band, and the reason it's called So Long, Mate! is because at the end of each performance the other four members of the band kill the lead singer. As a result, the music has a certain urgency to it. Also, it keeps the tours nice and short; it's basically one night, and then back they go to L.A. to hold auditions. The band plans to have an album ready in the year 2037.DANNY NEEDS A TORSO"Hello, this is David Nipplegripper, another insufferable Hollywood movie star who wants you to help some cause or charity merely because I say so. Today, I want to tell you about little Danny Pendejo. Danny needs your help; he was born with no torso. His legs are fine, his arms are fine, and his head is okay except for one really big, caved-in part on top. But he has no torso. Won't you help by being a torso donor? Even a torso that's too big will be better than no torso at all. Thank you. This is David Nipplegripper, reminding you to see my new movie, Breasts on the Moon"NUTS!Another sign of America's decline: Because a few people are "sensitive to peanuts" and have "allergies" that might "kill them," America's commercial airlines had to stop serving those little bags of peanuts. It wasn't sufficient that the affected people could simply refuse the peanuts when they were offered; the argument was made that the people who did eat the peanuts were putting "peanut dust" in the air, creating a health hazard for the "victims." What a load of shit. If someone is in danger of dying from inhaling peanut dust, why aren't they dead already? Why didn't they die at a baseball game or at the circus? America has gone soft.

INSTRUCTIONS: FOLLOW CAREFULLYRelease the handle by pulling down the strap and tightening the fasteners. Press the button and remove the safety cap, then turn the knob to unleash the spring and wind the excess slack onto the spool. Loosen the screws on the plate lid and insert the tabs into the slots. Rotate the control switch a quarter of a turn before lowering the two levers. Then drop the main crank into a neutral position. Be careful not to unscrew the housing before engaging the catch. Plug in and you're set to go. If smoke fills the room, read the troubleshooting guide at the rear of this manual.ACTORS, NOT ACTIVISTSI like the good actors. The real actors. The ones who keep their lives private. Sean Penn, Harvey Keitel, Alan Arkin, Robert Duvall, Al Pacino, Jack Nicholson, Johnny Depp, Robert De Niro, Gary Oldman, William Hurt, Dustin Hoffman, Gene Hackman, Gary Sinise, Christopher Walken, Gary Busey. They keep to themselves. You don't see them appearing all the time on TV. They don't cooperate with Access Hollywood and Entertainment Tonight. They're actors. Not celebrities. They keep to themselves. That's why their work is so good. Good for them.DEAR MADear Ma,Even though you 're dead, I wanted you to know I'm doing real well. No thanks to you, I might add. I now have my own TV show and it's getting very high ratings. 1 play the part of a guy whose mother dies but it doesn 't really bother him. I know they don't have good reception where you are, so I'm going to send you a tape. Do you think a tape will be okay in the intense heat? Love, DirkTEAMS SUCK!I don't like ass kissers, flag wavers or team players. I like people who buck the system. Individualists. I often warn kids: "Somewhere along the way, someoneis going to tell you, 'There is no "I" in team.1 What you should tell them is, 'Maybe not. But there is an "I" in independence, individuality and integrity.' " Avoid teams at all cost. Keep your circle small. Never join a group that has a name. If they say, "We're the So-and-Sos," take a walk. And if, somehow, you must join, if it's unavoidable, such as a union or a trade association, go ahead and join. But don't participate; it will be your death. And if they tell you you're not a team player, just congratulate them on being so observant.IN THE GROOVEYou ever run over a guy with your car? And you kind of panic? So you back up? And run over him a second time? And then you realize you have to get the fuck outta there before the police show up? So you put it in drive again and run over him a third time? What the fuckmight as well. What else you gonna do at that point, drive around him? Anyway, as you drive away, did you ever reflect on the fact that each time you ran over him the crunching sound got fainter and fainter? That's because he already had two good, deep grooves pressed into him that you kept driving through.PRIDE GOETH . . .Parents are such fuckin' doofuses. I saw a bumper sticker that said "Proud parents of a sailor." What the fuck is so special about being a sailor? How about "Proud parents of a tailor"? Isn't a tailor worthy, too? The whole "proud parent" thing is bullshit. Pretty soon I'm expecting to see "Proud parents of a child." Have a little self-respect, will ya? You never see the children withbumper stickers that say "Proud son of Mr. & Mrs. Klayman." That's because Mr. & Mrs. Klayman are such fuckin' doofuses.I'M IN THE MORAL MINORITYI don't think there's really such a thing as morality. I think it's a human construct designed to facilitate the control of people. Values, ethics, legal standards all of these things are human-generated, and they're lumped under some vague idea called morality. But suppose humans got it wrong? Suppose there's no actual, objective morality? Suppose there's just a natural, worldly, secular, common-sense standard of behavior whose purpose is what's best for getting along and what's best for survival? That would be a good system. Why should a system like that be overlaid with a sense of spooky, mystical, judgmental oversight?JUST DIE, MOTHERFUCKERWhen this Catholic guy, Cardinal Bernardin of Chicago, died, they praised him for accepting death gracefully. Excuse me, but isn't that what you're supposed to do? Accept death gracefully? What's that? You say many people don't accept death gracefully? I see. So now we're evaluating people's behavior and praising them based on what other people don'tdo? Wonderful..I don't think people should ever get credit for doing something they're supposed to do, even if it's rarely done by others. Condemn the ones who don't do it if you like, but don't praise the ones who do it. Only one of the two behaviors is worth commenting on, not both.TRUE STUFFYou know those broken white lines that separate the lanes on a highway? Have you ever counted them? If you do, you'll find that there are a hundred of them every mile. It's true. Each line is a hundredth of a mile from the next one. Count them for yourself as you track your distance on the odometer. Just count how many there are each tenth of a mile; there should be ten. But while you're counting, don't forget to keep an eye out for that big eighteen-wheeler up ahead, parked sideways in the middle of the road.CHOW TIME"Hi, I'm Ferris Banderhead, another bothersome movie star who tells people to support some charity or other in order to make myself appear concerned and to increase my popularity. Not to mention easing the guilt I feel for having much more than I deserve. But enough about me. April is National Hunger Month. In Beverly Hills, we're having our annual Hunger Banquet and Gala called 'Hors d'oeuvres for Ethiopia.' Send in your dollars today and help us feed people around the world who could certainly use a nice hors d'oeuvre. And remember, the sooner we conquer hunger, the sooner we can start working on upset stomach. Thank you. This is Ferris Banderhead, reminding you to see my new spy movie, The Snotlocker Papers."Mannheim Rehab: Call Today"I'm Dr. Mannheim of the Mannheim Rehab and Recovery Center. People ask me, 'How can I tell when one of my loved ones needs help with a substance abuse problem?' And I say, 'If you see them lying in a corner, naked, in a puddle of their own filth, it may be time to think about counseling.' Call Mannheim today, and we'll come over and pick them up. But before we get there . . . please clean up the filth."UNCLE BLITZENUncle Blitzen was a troubled man. As a child, visiting backstage at a concert, he was fondled by a viola player and lived the rest of his days with an unnatural fear of stringed instruments. He was one of the nine hundred people present at the Jonestown Massacre, but he threw away the Kool-Aid and only pretended to be dead. When everyone stopped moving he looted the corpses. Subsequently, he moved to Stockholm, where he became the town scumbag. Years later, he reemerged in England as a self-proclaimed bishop, roaming the Midlands with a band of rogue altar boys, administering forced communion to lapsed Catholics. He died during Hurricane Shlomo in front of an adult sex shop when the store's sign blew down and he was crushed to death by a giant neon dildo.UNCLE PINOCCHIOUncle Pinocchio had twenty-three separate and distinct personalities; unfortunately, all of them were unpleasant. He believed that Porky Pig cartoons represented actual events, and he once stabbed his dog with a ceremonial Japanese saber in a dispute over a lamb bone. He always wore a three-piece suit. It didn't have a vest, the jacket was just torn in half. He drifted from job to job: balloon vendor, freelance daredevil and stoop laborer among them. He finally settled in his basement, where he lost his mind trying to invent a rectal harmonica. After that, the family kept him tied to a linden tree in the backyard, where they fed him with a slingshot. After six years, they released him on Mussolini's birthday, whereupon he married a passive-aggressive librarian who later beat him to death with a dictionary stand.UNCLE SHADRACKUncle Shadrack felt he was special because one of his testicles was shaped like a Brazil nut and the other like a cashew. He loved to run up to women, screaming, "You want some mixed nuts?" He told me that in his younger days he was quite a lover and once fucked a girl so hard her freckles fell off. Alas, he didn't marry well. His wife, Chlorine, looked like something that might be found in the Dumpster behind a cloning center. Her PMS was so bad she had a mood swing installed in her backyard. As a child, while watching a gay pride parade, she was run over by a float full of lesbians, and was eventually found dead in a military barracks, having ingested a load of bad sperm. Shadrack was electrocuted by a RadioShack pacemaker he purchased at a thrift shop.UNCLE SHEMPUncle Shemp was alarmingly unexceptional. He had no detectable lifestyle, and his only accomplishment was the fact that he was a lifelong member of the general public. He started slowly, struggled hard and eventually clawed his way to the back of the pack. Occasionally, he would show a sudden flash of mediocrity, but quickly return to his usual pattern of complete insignificance. He was a man without memories. He didn't have amnesia, he simply had no memories. As he put it, "Nothing big ever really happened." As a result, he wore a Medic-Alert bracelet saying PLEASE LET ME DIE. His only pleasure was his hobby: picking through airline wreckage, looking for children's toys. He died at seventy-five from a head injury suffered as the result of undue glee following a bowel movement.

TUMOR HUMOR: GUYS, GALS & CANCER

WOMEN: THE PRODUCE DEPARTMENTMAE: I see where Ruthie Garrick went under the knife the other day. She had a tumor on her the size of a grapefruit.AGNES: Well, that's bigger than Estelle Mealy's tumor. Estelle's was the size of a large navel orange.PAULA: Yeah, but sometimes a large navel orange can be almost as big as a small grapefruit.KATE: That's true. Especially one of them small Indian River grapefruits. I don't like them. Too sour.

PAULA: Me either.MAE: Listen, girls, this wasn't no small Indian River-size tumor. The doctor said this thing was almost the size of a cantaloupe. He claimed if he'd-a left it alone any longer, it probably woulda wound up as big as a casaba melon.AGNES: Earlene Miller had a tumor the size of a casaba melon. Actually, her sister claimed it was approaching honeydew proportions.PAULA: Well, I don't know nothing' about no tumors, but when my aunt Ruby died, her liver was the size of a champion watermelon. I got a picture of it somewhere.KATE: Really? You know, they say that after you die, your liver keeps right on growing.PAULA: Well, I'm thinkin Ruby's liver had probably reached its limit. I mean, where do you go from watermelon?

KATE: Beach ball.

MAE: Kate, a beach ball's not a food!KATE: You want food? I'll give you food. Wait'll you hear this. Ten years ago, when my sister Myra had her gallbladder out, they foundtwenty gallstones in it. Each one of them was the sizeand the shapeof a different type of food: a raisin, a pea, a caper, a grape, a radish, an olive, a pearl onion, a melon ball, a hazelnut, a marshmallow, a Brussels sprout, a bing cherry, a kumquat, a gherkin, a filbert, a small whole boiled potato, a cocktail sausage, a meatball, a lima bean and a dwarf pumpkin.PAULA: They took all of that out of your aunt? KATE: They sure did. PAULA: Jesus! Did she feel any better? KATE: She said she was hungry.

MEN: THE SPORTS SECTION

JIM: I see where Petey Whelan died the other day. They say he had a tumor on him the size of a beach ball.

ED: No kiddin? That one under his arm? Jesus, it musta...JIM: It sure did. I can remember the day I first saw it; it was small, like a marble. Then almost overnight it looked like a golf ball. I couldn't believe it!TOM: That was the day he showed it to me. By the time I saw it, it looked more like a slightly enlarged handball, maybe just approaching racquetball size. I spent about an hour with him, and as I was leavin', I glanced at it. The damn thing looked like a tennis ball. I don'tmean it had fuzz on it or anything. I just mean it was the size of a tennis ball.JIM: Yeah. That's when he went to the hospital. He said on the way over in the taxi it went from a baseball to a softball, and then, in the waiting room, it reached the size of a small, regulation volleyball. Finally, when he got into the examining room, the doctors were so alarmed at its growth they smashed it with a big fryin' pan, and it temporarily flattened out into an oval shape.

ED: I remember that. For about an hour it resembled a...TOM: Yeah. Then it slowly became round again, but it kept on gettin' bigger. Suddenly, it developed big black spots all over it.

ED: The soccer-ball stage.TOM: Yeah. Of course, by that time the situation was hopeless. Pretty soon the thing was up to the size of a basketball, and before you knew it, it had gone right past medicine ball and was headin' for beach-ball status. They finally had to move him out of his room and put him in the gymnasium.

ED: Appropriate. How did he die, anyway?JIM: They tried to operate on him, but as soon as they made an incision all the air rushed out of him. Death by deflation.TOM: Poor guy. ED: Yeah. TOM: Hey, you know what we forgot? Lacrosse and polo.SOARING AND PLUNGING IN THE MEDIAOne of my pet pursuits is keeping track of how the news media describe those things in the news that increase or decrease. I can generally rely on the fact that the same verbs will be used repeatedly in the same situations.One of the first things I noticed is that while certain things skyrocket, others tend to mushroom. Medical costs skyrocket. The national debt doesn't do that; it mushrooms. And, experts warn, if present trends continue, both of these things will eventually #0 through the roof.But mushrooming is not the only thing the national debt does; it also balloons. There aren't too many things that balloon. The annual budget deficit used to balloon, then for a while it didn't balloon, now it balloons again. And, by the way, people can balloon, as well. I remember reading in the tabloids once that the actress Delta Burke had ballooned to some weight that, apparently, the publication found unacceptable.So, thus far we've skyrocketed, mushroomed and ballooned. But let's not forget snowballing. You know what snowballs? An investigation. What happens is, an inquiry becomes an investigation, and the investigation begins to snowball. And what does it snowball into? Right! A full-blown probe. And if the probe uncovers enough dirt, it could possibly mushroom into a full-blown scandal.Then we have the case of swelled. During the 1990s, job rolls swelled. By the way, I've often wondered if those job rolls are at all similar to the welfare rolls we used to hear so much about. Just between you and me, I've never actually seen welfare rolls, but I'm sure that with a little margarine or jelly they re quite delicious. And it's certainly heartening to see the food stamp program working so effectively.Getting back to our subject here, I've found that one of the best places to keep an eye on these "up and down" words is Wall Street. Financial reporting. For purposes of this activity, I'll use hypothetical examples of economic activity that don't actually reflect recent conditions. I can't keep adjusting this material according to the whims of the economy. And besides, this is about language, not finance.Just to review: We've already skyrocketed, mushroomed, ballooned, snowballed and swelled. Now, as we enter the world of Wall Street, we add a few simpler verbs: climb, surge and jump. "The stock market climbed today as prices surged on news that housing starts had. jumped ten. percent." Lots of action.Another big thing on Wall Street is soaring. "Stock prices soared today, as reports showed earnings were up sharply." Or they may have shot upward. At any rate, upward is good. I remember one time hearing Lou Dobbs himself telling me that the Dow Jones Industrials had vaulted upward two hundred points. And, on the same day, not to be left too far behind, the long bond inched higher.Then we have the very special case of spiraling. The nice thing about spiraling is that it can go in either direction. "As medical costs have spiraled upward, the quality of medical care has spiraled downward." And not only do these two medical numbers spiral upward and downward, both of them are actually capable of spiraling out of control.Spiraling downward brings us to the verbs for things that are falling. For some reason, downward verbs are more colorful than upward verbs. Downward is where we discover plunge, plummet and nosedive. You can always tell when a bull market is over, because bousing starts plunge, new-car sales plummet and orders for durable goods take a nosedive. At a time like that, stock prices are usually on the verge of collapse.Or, instead of collapsing, they may simply tumble, drop sharply or go into a tailspin. And if stock prices are in a tailspin, you can be sure it won't be long before they find themselves in a dizzying free fall.Continuing with bear markets, not all days are so dramatic. Occasionally, prices only dip slightly. Dip slightly is the opposite of edge higher.And before we leave these words for increasing and decreasing, I would like to make special mention of beefed up. I remember reading once that, in anticipation of a visit by Yassir Arafat, security at the United Nations had been beefed up.Arafat being a Muslim, of course, beef would be the preferred meat. You certainly wouldn t want security to htporked up. I can think of any number of reasons why we wouldn't want that. And by the way, if you've ever seen some of these security people, you know that the last thing they need is more pork. Or beef. Or food of any kind, for that matter.Beefed up is one of those terms that has no exact opposite. Nothing ever gets beefed down. They never say, "Now that Arafat's visit has concluded, security at the United Nations has been beefed down." Doesn't sound right. Instead, they say scaled back. Always remember, anything that's been beefed up can be scaled back. Although occasionally, for variety's sake, rather than scaled back the item may be pared down.Hiked and mmmed are two more good uup and down" examples. Quite often, during the same session of Congress, defense spending will be hiked while education spending is trimmed. And sometimes, if Congress is in a really bad mood, education spending is slashed, and defense spending skyrockets.Well, we've gone from sky-high to rock bottom and we seem to be windingdown now, so let me add one last item: I think I may have figured out the difference between ramping up and ratcheting up. I'm pretty sure that while ramping up takes place on a continuum, ratcheting up is more a series of increments. But I do find it interesting that, as with the beef situation, I rarely hear of ramping or ratcheting down. As for me, I'm at wit's end.PROBLEMS AND ISSUESAs you know, people no longer have, problems in this country, they have issues. This shift grows out of our increasingly desperate need to shade the truth and see things as more positive than they really are. Problems sound negative and ordinary; issues sound important, worthy of attention. People are proud to announce them: "I have issues." They feel superior to others who haven't made the switch: "Poor fuck. He has problems. I have . . . issues!" To feel extra superior they may even pair it with some other trendy upgrade: "He has a drug problem, I have chemical dependency issues!'As with everything in American culture, the use of the word spread indiscriminately to the point where it, of course, lost all its usefulness: During the murder case in San Francisco in 2001 in which two dogs mauled a woman to death, one of the neighbors said, "Everyone knew those dogs had issues with females." Commercials picked it up: L'Oreal says, "Mature skin has issues all its own." An adult diaper commercial informs me that "Many women have bladder-control issues."So now people have all these issues: trust issues, boundary issues, abandonment issues, personal-space issues. Clearly, I have a problem with this word, but problem has lost its power, cheapened by the careless use of expres-sions like, "What's your problem?" "You got a problem with that," "No problem," and, for those truly in a hurry, "No prob."I needed a new word, and I refuse to say "issues." So, instead, I turned to that ultimate source of creative language-bending, our nation's capital. I heard a prominent senator, when asked if some issue presented a problem for him, say, "Well, it's not a problem, but it is a concern. "And I thought, Wow, another choice for people who refuse to acknowledge problems. I adopted it immediately. But I hope concern doesn't catch on to the point where it becomes a problem. After all this trouble, I'd hate to have to deal with concern issues.THE SECRET NEWS (News ticker sound effect)ANNOUNCER: (whispering)Good evening, ladies and gentlemen, it's time for the Secret News.(News ticker gets louder.) ANNOUNCER: Shhhhh! (Ticker lowers.)ANNOUNCER:Here is the Secret News:All people are afraid.No one knows what they're doing.Everything is getting worse.Some people deserve to die.Your money is worthless.No one is properly dressed.At least one of your children will disappoint you.The system is rigged.Your house will never be completely clean.All teachers are incompetent.There are people who really dislike you.Nothing is as good as it seems.Things don't last.No one is paying attention.The country is dying.God doesn't care.Shhhhh.?

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